tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34907998482672709882024-02-08T05:04:33.471-08:00The Bizness of Liznesse_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-24812880571551066202012-08-14T13:26:00.001-07:002012-08-14T13:26:44.660-07:0010 Unhappiest Jobs... :(So today I read this Yahoo! article on the 10 Unhappiest Jobs today, knowing full well prior to reading it that teaching was going to be on the list. Here's the jist of what was said about why teaching is miserable.<br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="background-color: white; color: purple;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px;">"CareerBliss has found through our research that teachers appear to be quite happy with their work and their co-workers. However, the rewards for their work, lack of support and lack of opportunities to be promoted counteract many of the good parts of the job."</span><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Georgia, Times, 'Times New Roman', serif; font-size: 14px; line-height: 22px;"><br /></span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I mostly agree. On any given day, I usually enjoy my job. I thrive in the craziness that teaching is. My eyes are usually open for those lovely little teaching moments, where the kids get totally enthralled in something that probably wasn't planned for the day, and I'm okay with that. I even love doing report cards, seeing on paper how my kids have grown, or seeing what areas need work, and then the challenge of planning how I'm going to work with the kids on the concepts that need development. My students become my kids - I go to bed worrying about little "Judy" whose mom has gone off the deep end, hoping that Dad can pick up the pieces of her shattered little world for her. I worry about "Jim" who just can't seem to understand subtraction, and racking my brain (and usually the internet) trying to come up with a new way of presenting the information to him. I worry about "Sally" and wonder why she has taken to throwing tantrums over nothing. I worry about "David" who is reading at a 2nd grade level, and I wonder if I'm not doing him a disservice by not challenging him enough. </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I am fortunate enough to be at a school that I love. The principal and the APs demonstrate that they truly do care about the education their students receive. They show that they are in this to make this the best possible learning environment (while still following state and local standards) that they can. The rest of the faculty are easy to befriend, and you can just tell by their demeanors that they are in their job to be the best teachers they can be. I feel supported by my co-workers, and I even feel that when I need a pat on the back telling me I've done a good job, I am awarded that.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">The parts of the job that make me miserable are the "little things." Like the fact that despite busting our butts all year (and yes, ALL YEAR, not just 9 months) for what some claim to be a miserable salary (I don't have a problem with my starting salary for the record), our yearly pay increase is around 1%, which adds up to an extra $33 per month. Like the fact that when little Johnny or Suzy doesn't bring in school supplies, I'm the one who pays for them. Or if I want to do a really cool science project or art project, the money for the supplies comes from my salary. Or that I can't use the bathroom when I need to because I don't have someone to watch my classroom, which means I drink less to avoid unnecessary bathroom breaks, which means I get dehydrated and my personal health is jeopardized. And when parents want to speak to me about their child (which is good!) but they get upset and angry when I don't respond immediately to their text/e-mail/phone call, which just happens to be between the hours of 7:30 a.m. and 2:45 p.m. and how dare I continue teaching the rest of the class when their child needs to be discussed?! Or a child has physically assaulted a teacher, and the parent is insistent that the teacher must have egged them on for them to behave this way. The pressures from the district and the administration to follow standards or teach a certain way that goes against our mores as educators (like teaching to the test). And the feeling that I'm never quite doing enough even though I'm busting my butt ALL YEAR to make this a great school year and an amazing learning environment. </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I would be lying if I said there were days where 2:55 p.m. rolled around and I collapse at my desk (or table) and just cry. Cry out of frustration, anger, fear, more frustration and anger, and whatever else went wrong that day. I would be lying if I said that I had students, co-workers, parents, etc. that made me so frustrated and angry that I longed for a punching bag to let loose with. I would be lying if I said there were many days where on my drive home I swore I would not teach another year because why should I have to put up with this crap? I would be lying if I said on those days that I went home and started seriously considering other careers - I could use the bathroom whenever I wanted, expense things I needed for my job, make more money - and the list could go on! I would be lying if I said that I didn't have sleepless nights worrying about my students, wondering what I could be doing better while planning my lessons, fretting about the disagreement with a co-worker, and again the list could go on.</span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;">I would also be lying if I said that I could quit teaching and never look back. I would be lying if I said I wouldn't miss those "lightbulb" moments for each and every student, those moments that give teachers their high. I would be lying if I said I wouldn't miss the beautifully hand-drawn masterpieces of self-portraits, butterflies fluttering through fields of brightly scribbled flowers, and butts. I would be lying if I said I wouldn't miss the joy that comes with seeing the progression that each child goes through on their own timeline. I would be lying if I said I wouldn't miss the camaraderie amongst the faculty while doing extracurriculars together. I would be lying if I said I wouldn't miss those rare and fleeting times when all students are behaving, learning, cooperating, and being the ideal class. And I would be lying if I said I wouldn't miss those little moments of gratification when your student hugs you and says, "I love you, Mrs. K." Or even those moments when a kid slips and calls you "Mom". Or the times when one of your little troublemakers looks at you after a particularly interesting day and says, "You're the best teacher ever." </span></span><br />
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<span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: Times, 'Times New Roman', serif;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="line-height: 22px;">I have the happiest unhappiest job that there might be.</span></span>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-53959157446181521722012-02-18T18:49:00.001-08:002012-02-18T18:56:53.162-08:00Being lifted from the fogDo you ever have those moments where something pops into your head, but it seems to be in a fog? I had a dream the other night that I got a tattoo of a quote, and I could pick out a few words that I recalled from the quote, but nothing more. I knew the author of the quote started with "m" but does that really narrow it down?? <div><br /></div><div>I swear that listening to music defogs my brain. Things that normally don't make sense to me suddenly start to make sense after listening to music for about 15 minutes or so. After 15 minutes of listening to my "Back When Life Was Easy" playlist on Spotify, the author of the quote finally jumped into my head. </div><div><br /></div><div>I had a dream that I got the quote tattooed on my back, with a needle and rainbow thread on my wrist. (I've been contemplating adding another tattoo, but I'm still uncertain what I want, thus the basis for the dream.) So here's the quote, one that has been in my head for a few days now.</div><div><br /></div><div><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-family: georgia, serif; font-size: 14px; color: rgb(24, 24, 24); line-height: 18px; ">Your absence has gone through me<br />Like thread through a needle.<br />Everything I do is stitched with its color.” - W.S. Merwin</span></div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-40865454159258654042011-11-06T06:09:00.000-08:002011-11-06T06:16:40.725-08:00Appraise this...So I have my first public school appraisal tomorrow. That means the principal (or assistant principal) comes in and watches you teach a lesson. I've already had two walk-throughs where the principal comes in and just watches for about 5 minutes, and those went quite well. There are a bunch of other teachers at my grade level who FREAK out about appraisals. They make over-the-top, crazy involved lessons in an attempt to impress the principal with their educational prowess. And me? I'm not doing anything different. My lesson isn't going to be any different than it normally is. <div><br /></div><div>Why should I put on a front for my principal? Why should an appraisal be any different than any other day? I don't want to tap dance and put on a big show for her - I want her to see me for the teacher I usually am and I want her to see the lessons I usually present. Doing otherwise would be misleading to her and to my students. I want them to act like they do every day. I want her to appraise me for who I am and what I normally do. </div><div><br /></div><div>If it turns out that what I'm doing in the classroom isn't what Ms. Taylor wants to see, then I'll change my way of teaching. At least I won't be acting for her or doing things that I normally wouldn't do. </div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-21126958588238915982011-10-13T19:15:00.000-07:002011-10-13T19:20:43.957-07:00WELS Pastors' Wives Survey<!--StartFragment--> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> ** As some of you know, I had to create a survey for my Educational Research class this summer. I didn't have an "educational situation" to use, so I used something synod related and did a survey of the state of WELS Pastors' Wives. It was something that interested me (you know, being a PW) and I was intrigued by the results of the survey. I think another more well-written survey would be interesting to do in the future. </o:p></b></p><p class="MsoNormal"><b>A few of you have asked for the results and report of my survey, so here it is. I'm not sure if the delightfully well-executed graphs and charts will be displayed, but some of the statistical information is listed in the report. Enjoy!</b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><b><br /></b></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: large;"><b>A Survey of Wisconsin Evangelical Lutheran Pastors' Wives</b></span></p><p class="MsoNormal" style="text-align:justify"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">Background and purpose:<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:.5in">When thinking about the many and varied duties and demands put on our Wisconsin Evangelical Lutheran Synod (WELS) pastors, one can forget to consider the heavy load carried by their wives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Our WELS pastors have two families – their spiritual family, of which they are the shepherd, and their actual family, of which they are the head.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>As a pastor’s wife, I wanted to hear the reactions of other pastors’ wives and find out about the overall well-being of my fellow sisters in Christ.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The survey was focused mainly on the wives attitudes and opinions of how they gauged their husband’s ministry and how their church family treated them, the relationships that pastor’s wives foster between friends and their spouse, and financial matters.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The overarching questions I wanted to delve into were:</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left:.75in;mso-add-space:auto; text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">1.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Do pastors’ wives seem generally content and happy with their role as a pastor’s wife?</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left:.75in;mso-add-space: auto;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">2.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>What is the state of the relationships that pastors’ wives foster with friends and their spouse?</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left:.75in;mso-add-space: auto;text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">3.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>How do pastors’ wives feel about their family’s financial matters?</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="margin-left:.75in;mso-add-space:auto; text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l1 level1 lfo1"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">4.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Have the concerns of pastors’ wives changed over the years?</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:.5in">The exact number of WELS pastors’ wives in the United States is not known.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>According to the WELS website, there are 1,305 pastors in the United States.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I am unable to use this number due to the fact that not all WELS pastors are married, and I’m not sure if all pastors were included in the e-mails.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Based on some of the results, there is a section of wives who were unable to be reached, most likely because their husbands are not ministers in a church setting, but rather they are pastors serving as religion teachers in our WELS area Lutheran high schools or called worker training schools, chaplains, etc.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:.5in">I received 149 surveys, although only 131 of them were fully completed.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>There were some issues that I was made aware of in regards to the survey completion.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I received word that some people were confused by the lack of instruction at the end of the survey, therefore receiving duplicate surveys from a few people.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Although I went through and deleted the superfluous surveys, the deleted survey’s answers were still conveyed in the final numbers.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Procedure:<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>A survey was given to pastors’ wives in the WELS.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The survey was created and completed online via quiksurveys.com.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The link was sent to the district presidents.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>They were asked to forward the survey to the pastors in their district, and requested if they could in turn forward it to their wives’ e-mail or make their wives aware that they were asked to complete the survey.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I also posted the survey link to my Facebook account and personally e-mailed a number of friends who are pastors’ wives and asked them to complete the survey and to pass along the link to other pastors’ wives they may know.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:.5in">The majority of the questions were requesting ordinal data in a Likert scale in which the respondents were asked to react to the statement on the following scale:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>strongly agree, somewhat agree, neither agree nor disagree, somewhat disagree, and strongly disagree.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Open-ended comments were also allowed for the respondents to verify or validate their reasoning for their answer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Respondents also provided general age data for use in creating a bivariate in a number of different questions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Findings and Analysis:<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:.5in">The first section of the survey contained information/demographic questions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Out of the 133 respondents that completed the survey, 44.7% were between the ages of 26-40, with the largest age group of respondents between the ages of 31-35 years old (Appendix, Figure 1).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The age was a somewhat important factor to this survey as it was used to determine a bivariate correlation in a few questions.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Out of the 12 synodical districts, all were represented, but the Minnesota, Arizona-California, Nebraska, and South Central districts had the highest number of respondents (Appendix, Figure 2).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Close to 30% of pastor’s families have three children currently, with close to 20% having two children (Appendix, Figure 3).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>84% (112) of the respondents’ husbands are currently serving in a WELS congregation, with 16% (20) serving in other areas of the ministry, as retired pastors, chaplains (with Lutheran Home Association or Wisconsin Lutheran Institutional Ministries), military liaisons, synod administrators, area Lutheran High school teachers, or Northwestern Publishing House employees.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>The second section of the survey had general church questions, trying to gauge the level of contentment of the wives with their husband’s current ministry situation as well as to try and scope out areas that could be improved (Appendix, Figures 4-10). 88% of the wives either strongly or somewhat agreed that their husband’s work is valued within the congregation (Appendix, Figure 4).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>A few wives pointed out that their current situation is different than previous situations where their husbands have felt more or less valued.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>One question that I was interested to see the response in was this:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My own spiritual needs are being met.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Many people don’t often think of the pastor’s wife being spiritually deprived, and I wanted to see if that was the case in our WELS pastor’s wives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I was happy to find out that nearly 90% wives responded positively, but what about the other 10%?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I wanted to see if I could find a common theme to those 10%.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Out of the 14 people who disagreed with the statement, all but 2 were from outlying districts (Arizona-California, North Atlantic, Nebraska, South Atlantic, South Central).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>One of the reasons for that could be that many churches in outlying districts are smaller, spaced farther apart from one another, or are mission congregations.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>As one of those respondents noted, “A small mission congregation drains you…<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I long for a congregation with more help, voices for singing, and interaction.”<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Another factor I looked at was age.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>11 of the 14 who responded negatively were under the age of 35 (read:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>prime child-bearing years).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>One respondent voiced her reasoning, “With two small children, it’s hard to focus during church.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>We have a small, elderly congregation, and I can’t attend Bible class because we don’t have enough children to sustain a Sunday School and no one to watch my kids while I attend.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>The third section discussed the feelings of pastors’ wives in regards to their relationships with friends and family (Appendix, Figures 11-17).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>These questions ask mainly about how pastor’s wives feel they might be viewed in the public eye, as well as how they feel about their friendships within the congregation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I also wondered about relationship strain between the pastors and their wives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I asked the questions that I did because I wanted to know first of all where our wives are making friends within the community – inside or outside of the church family.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I also wanted to know how the basic dynamics of a relationship were for the wives and their husbands, as well as whether or not they felt their husband’s career was detrimental or beneficial to their family life.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I also inquired as to whether or not the pastors do activities outside of church/work and if they had friends to do those activities with (to see if the husbands rely mainly on their wives for friendship or have friends outside of church/marriage).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>A common theme in the third section was a number of respondents admitted to having strained relationships in the “younger” years, when their husbands were new to the ministry and their families were younger.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Many of the wives who responded that they agreed that their relationship was strained were under the age of 40, meaning they are still in the early years of the ministry and their families are still most likely on the younger side.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>The fourth section of the survey deals with financial matters (Appendix, Figures 18-21).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>As many in the WELS know, pastors do not go into their career path for the paycheck.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My wonder was if it stressed out the wives, knowing that their husbands work is often filled with stress and long hours without the appropriate compensation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I also was curious to find out if wives felt they needed more income per year to live “comfortably” (meaning not having to stress out about getting bills paid, or worrying about living paycheck to paycheck), making the assumption that pastors’ wives wouldn’t answer greedily.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I also wanted to know what they believed pastor’s salaries should be, taking into consideration the level of education they need as well as the hours worked.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>There were some questions that were included in the survey that were not reported in the appendix because after evaluating the results I realized the questions were superfluous and not relevant to the outcome of the study.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The questions left out of the findings were:<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>In your married life, has your family ever taken part in public assistance (i.e. WIC, food stamps, health care, etc.);<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>if you answered “yes” to the previous questions, please list the types of public assistance you were on and the length of time you used them, and; how much does your husband make in his yearly salary?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My reasoning for taking these out was because they were not relevant to any findings, and I felt these questions were emotionally charged at the time of creating the survey.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>Based on the survey results, financial stress plays a large part of families who have been in the ministry for less than ten years and families who are close to retirement.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I believe the reasons for financial stress playing such a large factor in younger families is the cost of living rising quickly, small salaries or salary freezes, and other issues like health-related problems such as food allergies (specialized diets requiring higher priced foods).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>In older couples closer to retirement a number of respondents voiced issues with saving for retirement due to lifelong lower salaries, having to pay for their children’s schooling (secondary and post-secondary education), and having to purchase housing later in their career and being unable to buy because of little to no equity.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>The two questions I really wanted to find out the answers to provided some interesting open-ended answers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>In regards to the findings of the open-ended questions of Questions 27 and 28, some of the answers were not a dollar amount, but a dollar range.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>When tabulating the results, I took the lowest dollar range, for instance, if someone answered “$5,000-$10,000” I scored it under the $5,000 category.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Some of the answers also were also not listed as exact dollar amounts and were listed in the “Other” category, and some were noted in the Appendix.</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>The final section was one that was based off an article written for Wisconsin Lutheran Quarterly in the early 1980s, “The Problems Facing a Pastor’s Wife Today”.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I wanted to see if the same problems from the later 1970s and early 1980s were still an issue and applicable to pastor’s wives today in 2011, around 30 years after the original study was completed and the article written (Appendix, Figure 22). <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>To find these, I had the fifteen original choices for the respondents and asked them to rate them one through six, one being the biggest disadvantage to being a pastors’ wife and so on.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" style="text-indent:.5in"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Based on the surveys completed, many of the issues that were deemed disadvantageous in the 1970s and 1980s still ring true.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Financial stress ranked higher (recall aforementioned reasons), as did lack of personal friends and not being able to share with other church couples.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I found that very intriguing as we live in the technological age and are easily able to keep in touch with friends and family via e-mail, Skype, Facebook, and other means, yet the pastors’ wives are feeling alone and lacking in personal friendships.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Conclusions:<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>Although I did not write the survey with a predetermined conclusion, the conclusions reached after examining this survey are what I suspected they might be.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Pastor’s wives, for the most part, are a happy and contented lot, and while they face many of the same day-to-day challenges that non-clergy families face, they also do have some unique challenges that are common to many clergy families.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="background:yellow;mso-highlight:yellow">I did notice that on the questions where it was offered, the numbers of those who responded with “neither agree nor disagree” was higher than I anticipated.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>To me that could mean one of two things, either people honestly did not know how to respond; or they were afraid to voice their opinions (despite the fact their response would be anonymous).</span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span><span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Recommendations:<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span></b>I believe that the results of this particular survey overall were positive.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Looking at the individual questions we do find room for improvement on how to reach out and care for our pastor’s wives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Providing camaraderie and fellowship for pastors’ wives as a circuit, district, or as a synod whole is something that I feel should be strongly considered.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The pastors have opportunities for enrichment and study with their colleagues in circuit meetings or district conventions, and I believe family conferences or circuit get-togethers would be beneficial for pastors’ wives to connect with other fellow pastors’ wives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><span style="mso-tab-count:1"> </span>The WELS has a Called Worked Care Committee that operates successfully and with much accord in certain areas of the country.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I think expanding that service to all synod districts would be of extreme benefit to the pastor and his wife. <span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Having someone to minister to the clergy family, even on a semi-annual basis would take a load off circuit pastors (who are most likely already overworked) and give opportunity to semi-retired or retired pastors who want to 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normal"><span style="font-size:20.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt">Appendix</span></b><span style="font-size:20.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt"><o:p></o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"><span style="font-size:20.0pt;mso-bidi-font-size:12.0pt"><o:p> </o:p></span></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal">A Survey of Pastors’ Wives in the Wisconsin Evangelical Lutheran Synod</b></p> <p class="MsoNormal" align="center" style="text-align:center"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Figure 2<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">2.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>What district is your husband currently serving?<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p 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depends on the congregation I suppose.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“Whatever the Lord leads the congregation to offer.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“That’s hard to answer.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My husband does his job because he loves it.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It’s hard to put a price tag on the Lord’s Work.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>That being said, pastors do not earn what their education should get them.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“Just what it is.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>We should be satisfied with what the Lord gives us.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“He does have a masters?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>But how does his income affect the opportunity to share for the kingdom.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>You could pay him lots and yet not have the money to do the ministry.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Not a good question.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>But if the church is sitting on half a million and the pastor’s family is suffering there’s something wrong.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I think the men should have mandatory education every year, which would benefit the men to have someone encourage and educate them…”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“Salary should be compared to what social workers make…”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“I think about our sons going into the ministry and it makes me want to discourage them for this reason alone.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>I hated living paycheck to paycheck when they were little.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>They should easily start out at $35,000, or more than a public school teacher makes.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“I know God takes care of us in all situations… I feel synod code is adequate, but each congregation should also consider the cost of living for their area and adjust accordingly.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“In 1955, $5,000 a year.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>Today, I don’t know.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“On a par for the average income of his congregation.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>He didn’t become a pastor for wealth, riches, or fame.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“Should depend on the size of the congregation and the cost of living in the area.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“Tough question, but it seems a masters’ degree should be compensated higher.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“More than our synod allows.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“More than it is.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>25 years into the ministry and I feel we should be making more than what we are.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“It depends on housing and cost of living.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“Enough so that his wife doesn’t need to choose between stay-at-home mom or a job.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“I have no idea – enough to take care of his family and himself and not be a pauper when he retires (if he ever does!).”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>It depends on several factors.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My husband has a doctorate… and he will never be compensated accordingly (nor does he expect it)… Perhaps the best answer is to say ‘Average to what all the other members make in the congregation.’”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“Beginning at least with $40K a year to help with the debt they start out with.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“It depends on experience of course.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>My husband works a lot harder and gets paid much less than many older pastors in our area.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>That is at least as bothersome as comparing ourselves to what people in other professions make.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“Every congregation is different with unique needs, required different skills sets and hence different salaries.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“This is a silly question.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal">*<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>“His salary was okay, but now our health, eye, and dental have been taken away.”</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Figure 22<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">29.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes"> </span>The Problems Facing a Pastor’s Wife Today – comparing 1980s to 2011<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Top 6 Disadvantages in the 1980s<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo2"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">1.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Time pressures due to husband’s heavy schedule</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo2"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">2.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Husband, serving others, neglects own family</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo2"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">3.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Financial stress</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo2"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">4.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>No one ministers to the clergy family</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo2"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">5.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Lack of family privacy – a goldfish bowl existence</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l0 level1 lfo2"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">6.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Children expected to model church’s expectations</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal">Top 6 Disadvantages in 2011<o:p></o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoNormal"><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight:normal"><o:p> </o:p></b></p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">1.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Time pressures due to husband’s heavy schedule</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">2.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Financial stress</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">3.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Husband on call 24/7</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">4.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>No one ministers to the clergy family</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">5.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>Lack of personal friends</p> <p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-indent:-.25in;mso-list:l2 level1 lfo3"><span style="mso-bidi-font-family:Cambria;mso-bidi-theme-font:minor-latin"><span style="mso-list:Ignore">6.<span style="font:7.0pt "Times New Roman""> </span></span></span>No in-depth sharing with other church couples</p> <p class="MsoNormal"><o:p> </o:p></p> <!--EndFragment-->e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-54419588757851681642011-09-09T18:22:00.000-07:002011-09-09T19:35:00.052-07:00The day that changed our lives...September 10, 2001. I was in my 5th year at Martin Luther College in New Ulm, MN. I was spending the evening with some of my closest friends - my roommate Deb, my cousin Julia, and my marching band buddy, Betsy. We were prematurely celebrating my 23rd birthday by sipping margaritas made with my birthday present, a blender. We were having spitting contests off the apartment balcony, and we watched a black market copy of "Pearl Harbor." While watching the movie, the scene where Pearl Harbor was being attacked I made a comment to my friends that still haunts me today - "You know, Pearl Harbor was the last time America was attacked on our own soil."<div><br /></div><div>I woke up the morning of September 11 around 5:30 a.m. to our mentally handicapped next-door neighbor Gus yelling and swearing at his alarm clock. I tried to go back to sleep, but I couldn't ignore Gus' cussing and thumping so I woke up and grumbled to myself about how it totally sucked that I was woken up early by my stupid neighbor and how I was hoping waking up early was the worst thing that would happen. After all, it was <i>my </i>23rd birthday and how dare my neighbor ruin my day. </div><div><br /></div><div>I went through my usual routine - I watched a little bit of "Saved by the Bell" after my shower while eating my cereal. When it was over, I turned on my new. I got into the habit of watching The Today Show while I was getting ready for school. I had watched for a while and then decided to go do my hair. While I was curling my hair, I remember hearing Katie Couric's voice get a little louder and more frantic sounding. I went into the living room and listened to them speaking about a fire at the World Trade Center and could it have been an explosion or a plane having difficulties? I can recall thinking to myself, "<i>There's no way a plane having trouble would just hit a major building."</i> I was watching (half of my hair curled) and I remember my stomach just dropping when I watched the second plane hit. I knew in my core that this was some sort of terrorist act. </div><div><br /></div><div>From that point in the day, I had to attend my classes for my professional semester. I remember very little of what happened during the rest of the day. I remember going to chapel and having a prayer for people affected. I recall coming home and there was a phone message from someone telling us to go out and get gas for our cars because rumor had it gas prices were up to $5.00 a gallon. Deb and I went to the gas station down the street and we were able to pull right in and get gas. By the time we were finished filling up, there was a line of cars down the street 15-20 cars deep. Deb and I still went bar hopping for my birthday, and it was depressing. At most of the bars we were the only ones in there. I think at one bar there were a whopping 7 people. </div><div><br /></div><div>There was one act done during that day that was a small, fairly minute thing that I did that I feel changed my life in a way that I didn't realize at the time. Once the second plane crashed, I found one of my video tapes, inserted it into the VCR and pressed the "record" button. I did that because I knew history was being made and I would have to teach it someday. I think even though I had completed my first round of student teaching, that moment was the first time I felt I knew I would be a teacher.</div><div><br /></div><div>I remember very little from that day. I remember being ticked off that my birthday was forever ruined. I was relieved that I lived in the middle of nowhere in Minnesota because despite what was going on elsewhere, I felt safe in the 56073. I remember also feeling a little bit scared because I was 6 1/2 hours away from my parents and my family. The one feeling that I do remember very well was waiting anxiously for my boyfriend to call me. I hadn't heard or seen him at all that day, and I just wanted to hear from him.</div><div><br /></div><div>Ten years later, I'm watching all the shows about 9/11 recalling the events of that day. I'm marveling at how our world has become so much more paranoid and rightfully so. I'm amazed at how I've been fortunate to not know anyone who lost their life that day. I actually enjoy watching the shows because it gives me faith in society. I don't like seeing the carnage of that day, but I love the little stories of people helping people with no concern or regard for race, ethnicity, religion, social status. </div><div><br /></div><div>Ten years later, I have a degree in Education and I'm working on my Master's. I have four years of teaching experience, and I'm starting my fifth. I have since married the boyfriend who didn't call me on my birthday in 2001, and I've also since forgiven him. I have two amazing children and a dog (and most likely another dog joining the family in late October). I have lived in four different states in those ten years. </div><div><br /></div><div>Ten years later, I'm older, slightly more responsible, hopefully wiser, but I still refuse to grow up. The world has changed in the last ten years, but I am doing my best not to change. Ten years ago I was upset that a bunch of terrorists ruined my birthday. Now I'm proud to say that my birthday is September 11th because those terrorists brought a country together for a period of time, and we celebrate unsung heroes on that day. </div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-70735343054029858262011-09-07T19:35:00.000-07:002011-09-07T19:51:39.711-07:00Opening Pandora('s Box)I owe my co-worker the world. I asked her if she put on music for her kids during rest time and she said that she used Pandora radio. I, being the technologically retarded individual that I am, asked how she got that on her computer. She, being the patient kindergarten teacher that she is, explained that all I had to do was set up an account.<div><br /></div><div>From that moment I opened Pandora's Box of musical goodies. (I know most of these things are probably "well, duh..." moments for most people.) I can type in an artist, or dare I say, <i>composer,</i> and a radio station is created based on that suggestion?? <i>WHAT?!?!?!?!? </i>My mind was blown. Seriously. </div><div><br /></div><div>I have a few stations created for my classroom - They Might Be Giants for some educationally and musically stimulating tuneage. Irving Berlin because they enjoy "playing" along with "Alexander's Ragtime Band." Beethoven because of the well-known statement that playing classical can enhance intelligence (and truth by told, my students need all the help they can get right now). Grieg because he's my favorite composer and some of his stuff is delightfully weird, as are my kindergarteners - it fits. And some Rockabye Baby because I enjoy listening to Journey, Aerosmith, Green Day, and U2 masked as lullabies during naptime. </div><div><br /></div><div>Most of all, I'm enjoying listening to some pieces I've probably never heard before. I love classical music for all the intricacies and simplicity. So, Pandora Radio, and most importantly Miss Clarkson, thank you for reigniting my need for music in my life. (P.S. - Beethoven's Sonata for Cello and Piano in A Major, Opus 69, II and Chopin's Fantasy - Impromptu in C Sharp Minor, Opus 66 - my new faves.)</div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-57938596333713201462011-08-31T20:00:00.000-07:002011-08-31T20:16:52.696-07:00Not ashamed...It may be no surprise that I've had an interesting and fun-filled first 8 days of school. I never could have imagined how completely different teaching in a public school is compared to teaching in the WELS. I've had quite the 8 days of coming home and poring over the internet to find ideas to deal with my school brood.<div>
<br /></div><div>I decided instead of trying to handle this myself, I am asking for as much help as possible. This is something I've been criticized for already. I asked the Curriculum/Instructional Specialist for help. The principal has already been in to teach a lesson to see what I'm working with. But why the criticism? My job is to teach these children the best way I know how. I've used the ways I know and the ways I'm familiar with. But my ways aren't working. My way is not completely broken, but certainly isn't working to its optimum potential. I know that I won't be happy unless I can help this class learn and learn well, and right now that's not happening. Heck, I don't even have to swallow my pride to ask for help because I'm doing what my profession applauds - asking for help and finding solutions to problems.</div><div>
<br /></div><div>Thankfully my principal even had difficulty handling my class, so that made me feel a little bit better about my situation. I have the school counselor coming in tomorrow to observe a few of my students, I have one of the APs coming in as well to observe another few students, and I have the CIS coming back in to give me some pointers to deal with my little balls of energy, as well as ideas to keep things as structured as possible. </div><div>
<br /></div><div>So why should I be ashamed of asking for help? I'm not at all. Anyone who thinks for a second that I should be ashamed is ridiculous. I'm bound and determined to give my students the best kindergarten experience they can have, and darn it, they're going to get it!!</div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-88185536595649035062011-08-28T05:29:00.000-07:002011-08-28T05:52:26.616-07:00Stuff I'm thankful for...Do you ever have those moments where you are suddenly and unexpectedly thankful for something? I have these moments where I'm unexplicably thankful for what seem like silly or insignificant things, but it's a legitimate moment of thankfulness. I've been cataloging these moments in my head the past few days, and here are some of the moments I've come up with:<div>
<br /></div><div>** I'm thankful that my teachers in grade school (and even high school) made us memorize all those hymns. It comes in very handy when you're trying to wrangle two children in church while singing "I Am Trusting You Lord Jesus" and you don't miss a single word because your 1st and 2nd grade teacher made you memorize all 6 verses (except for some slight tripping-up on what used to be "thee's" and "thou's" which are now "you's" and "your's"). </div><div>
<br /></div><div>** I'm thankful that poop, pee, and vomit don't phase me. It makes it so much easier to be able to comfort my daughter after she "slurped" on the carpet at 1:30 a.m. instead of worrying that cleaning up vomit may in turn cause me to vomit. (On a side note: Parents, you should invest in Nature's Miracle odor neutralizing liquid. We bought it for our dog, and we've used it more for our kids and their "accidents". Works like a charm to get rid of smelly liquids that dogs and/or children may produce that end up on/in your carpet.)</div><div>
<br /></div><div>** I'm thankful my kids are freaking adorable. It makes it that much easier to overlook and forgive their many and varied flaws, like throwing their quarters obnoxiously into the offering plate, creating an extremely loud clang, or taking clean (but unfolded) laundry and wiping your snotty nose on a different article of clothing. </div><div>
<br /></div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-7610342467936814282011-08-23T19:15:00.000-07:002011-08-23T19:33:08.712-07:00What the heck do "criss-cross" and "applesauce" have to do with each other?Yep, <i>these</i> are the pressing thoughts on my mind lately... but seriously, who came up with the "criss-cross applesauce" idea for having kids sit down crossing their legs? Yes, I understand the "criss-cross" thing, but it seems that someone was just desperate for something cutesy and rhyming. I suppose "applesauce" is a far superior rhyme to "criss-cross" than "<i>I'm your boss</i>" (albeit accurate for a teacher in a kindergarten room). After googling it, it's apparent that useful words that rhyme with "cross" are lacking. To me it makes more sense to describe what your legs look like while sitting instead of making a senseless rhyme, which is why I'm using the term "pretzel legs" in my classroom.<div>
<br /></div><div>So my first two days of teaching are done and over, and somehow I've managed to survive. I do have a few challenging little goofballs in my classroom. My group of little peanuts are definitely challenged in the area of listening and following directions. I came up with a fabulous idea in my epiphany bathtub tonight. If Jelly Bellys work to potty train my kids, why wouldn't they work in quiet training my classroom??? I'm going to try the good behavior jar. When I see good behavior occurring - specifically using working voices and staying on-task - I will add a Jelly Belly to a jar. Once the jar is filled with good behavior, the sweets will be divvied up for all of us to enjoy. It might just be worth it. We shall see, it's worth a shot. And if nothing else, I will have a stash of Jelly Bellys to snack on whilst my lovely crew are driving me nuts and misbehaving. :)</div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-33142073503999941312011-07-28T18:54:00.000-07:002011-07-28T19:25:11.192-07:00Back in the saddle again...So in case you've been dead to the world (or not on Facebook anyways) I'll be getting back in the teaching groove. Yay!! (Insert the Liz Dance of Happiness here...) I've missed teaching like crazy for the last 6 years, and I'm even more excited that I'm teaching kindergarten again, since I have a feeling that teaching in the public school is going to be a whole different beast than teaching in the WELS schools, and at least I'll have the slight familiarity of kindergarten curriculum.<div><br /></div><div>I got to see my classroom at Reeces' Creek. I'm in room 104, in the block of six (yes, <i>SIX</i>) kindergarten rooms, and I think there may be another 3 kindergarten classrooms around the hall. I love the fact that my classroom has a tack board wall so I can thumbtack or staple anything (including unruly students) to the wall. I also love that I have a kid-size sink AND a kid-size bathroom, as well as ample storage space. An added bonus is that I also have a SmartBoard, a Promethean to be exact. How I'm going to utilize that in the classroom, I'm not quite sure yet, but I'll figure it out. </div><div><br /></div><div>The two things that I'm noticing that my classroom is missing are books and toys. The only books that are in the classroom are the books that come with the reading program, so nothing that's really fun and interesting for the kids to read (which makes it hard to create a reading corner with no books...). How am I supposed to create children who love to read when the only books that are at their disposal most of the day are leveled readers? Sure, they can go to the school library, but that's not constantly accessible. I guess I'll have to work on that...</div><div><br /></div><div>Another thing that's missing is toys. I've always thought of kindergarten as the perfect balance of school and play. They are starting the age where they can do seat work but they also still need play as a part of their learning process and socialization. As my friend from church (who was a public school teacher) put it, "There's no way the public school district is going to pay for toys." So now my issue is, do I add some toys in the classroom and be the only K teacher who does that, or do I just conform to the status quo? </div><div><br /></div><div>Either way, books or no books, toys or no toys, I'm beyond excited to be back in the classroom again and to have a whole new gang of students to make me laugh and help me learn as a teacher.<br /><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3490799848267270988.post-13665703805495021612011-05-24T18:40:00.000-07:002011-05-25T07:20:06.670-07:00(Everybody's Free) To Wear SunscreenAs many of you know, I was a lifeguard/Water Safety Instructor for a number of years at the critically-acclaimed Cedarburg Community Pool. We had to sit through a number on inservices on topics we'd never use, like "How to Handle Drowning Drunk Mexicans" and "Poop: The Real Thing or a Babe Ruth, and How to Tell the Difference Without Jumping In". (Oh wait, we DID have to use those inservice topics...) However, we did partake in the Pool Cool program, which teaches sun awareness to children. <div><br /></div><div>Since it's that time of year (at least down in Texas it is. Wisconsin, not so much...) when the pools open and people are flocking to them for some relief, I thought I would impart some of my pet peeves and knowledge of sun awareness to y'all. I've also read some articles on sunscreen, because while I personally despise sunscreen I do put it on my kids because, well, they're kids and I'm their mom and it's what I'm supposed to do.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>#1 - Sunscreen that is greater than SPF 30 provides very minimal extra protection.</b></div><div>We seem to think that in regards to sunscreen that the higher the number, the better the protection. That's not necessarily accurate when it comes to sunscreen. An SPF 30 rating has been found to protect the skin from 98% of harmful rays. As stated in the article, anything above an SPF 30 doesn't do much more. (http://www.nytimes.com/2007/08/07/health/07real.html) </div><div><br /></div><div><b>#2</b> <b>- Please for the love of Pete <i>DO NOT</i> put sunscreen on while your child is running into the water. Be kind, think ahead... </b>As a lifeguard, my personal favorite (note sarcasm) was when parents and progeny burst into the pool area, and Mom slathered up the gang and pushed them in the pool a minute later. Sitting on my guard perch, you can actually SEE the cloud of sunscreen floating off the children's skin and into the pool water, clogging up the filters and burning the eyes of the ungoggled underwater swimmers. Sunscreen needs time to sink into the skin, so the recommendations state to apply sunscreen 30 minutes (I've also read an hour) before entering the water. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>#3</b> - <b>Wet white T-shirts don't do nothin'. </b>Thankfully I think this is starting to become a thing of the past, so I'll be brief. Tempted to put a t-shirt on your kid to ensure sun protection? A wet white t-shirt has an SPF of 3. Colored t-shirts don't do much more than that when wet. (http://www.skincancer.org/sun-protective-clothing.html)</div><div><br /></div><div><b>#4 - Don't forget the forgotten parts. </b>We all know the obvious places to put sunscreen - arms, legs, face, back. Take it from the experienced one - don't forget to lotion up the ears thoroughly. An ear sunburn sucks. Also don't forget down the middle of your nose - it's happened to me and I had an awesome skunk nose. It's also helpful to make sure to get sunscreen under the swimsuit (especially on girls' backs) because as we girls know, our swimsuit straps, especially as children, rarely stay put or they move. Tops of the feet are also a somewhat forgotten spot, especially the little piggies. </div><div><br /></div><div><b>#5 - The purple sunscreen turns white for a reason. </b>We've probably all seen the sunscreen that's tinted purple (or any other pastel color) so that you know if you've rubbed it all in properly. Not rubbing the purple down to a white does not mean your child will receive extra sun protection. So please, do not let your child run around looking like a Purple People Eater and rub that junk in.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>#6 - Spray sunscreens ain't that great. </b> I have a few scenarios I've witnessed in my day that make me dislike spray sunscreen. First example: Mom sprays soon-to-be Little Red full of sunscreen on a windy day. Unless you spray that thing very close up, most of the sunscreen is flying away. And you need to apply a good layer of it for it to be useful. Second example: It's not like a spray-on tan where you get sprayed and wait for it to dry. You need to rub in the lotion well, just like any other lotion. Third (and most unpleasant) scenario: Mom sprays, kid inhales the fine mist, kid chokes on the fine mist, kid vomits a not-so-fine mist. True story.</div><div><br /></div><div><b>The moral of the story/blog:</b> We all know that we need to slather on the 'screen. That isn't the debate. I am kind of a purist when it comes to sunscreen - I don't need the fancy shmancy spray 'screen or the purplicious goo, just give me the regular old SPF 30 to put on 30-60 minutes before hitting the water, and I'm good. Make your own decisions about what's best for your kids and family, and hopefully I've enlightened you about some of the reasons why the lifeguards are rolling their eyes (if you can see that behind their sunglasses). There are many more reasons for the eye-rolling, and I'll get into those later...</div>e_liz7811http://www.blogger.com/profile/10970355573636299450noreply@blogger.com1